Sorry....

 
I was sitting in a coffee house and enjoying my favourite cup of coffee, suddenly  I received an sms from one of my friend it’s more of a sorry message, about something happened (lets not get into the details) hehe. I said, do you really mean it? Swiftly got a reply “I’ve said sorry, what more do you want”…..period.

 
Since then I have been thinking about how often we use word “Sorry” as a card to get out of the difficult situations. I'm sure all of us must have used and heard this word a lot, if you have noticed we use sorry for every itsy-bitsy situation even though most of the time we don’t mean it...isn't it? During my grown up days whenever I made any mistake or fault I have used SORRY and honestly I never took it seriously. Even today ‘sorry’ is just a word nothing much.

 
Today I  feel that "sorry" is the best way to escape or to avoid difficult truth. But are we doing it right?...I don't think so, I know it is difficult to sit down and solve or explain the situation or why we did it, but trust me this is the best way infact, it's the only way. Communicate with your loved one’s, don't use "sorry" as a shortcut.

An unexpected cup of coffee, gifting their favourite hero’s movie tickets are some simple gestures through which I can show “I’m Sorry Dear”, rather than some fancy bunch of flowers or lavish dinner….this is perhaps the more personalize way of saying sorry.

 So, go ahead and communicate, don’t let pride and ego take the place of happiness. Cause pride is that acid which will destroy your inner self completely and ego will take you to the lonely planet where you would be surrounded with only  skeletons .

 

Excess of everything is bad

At times when we try too hard to explain ourselves, that's when people, family or friends take you for granted. I personally feel its better to concentrate on creating our own life rather than wasting your time in explanations, cause those who care will definitely understand you, as simple as that.
Take care of yourself and those who matter. Don’t get overly concerned with what other people are doing or saying. Don’t get caught up with gossip or name calling. Believe me,everyone has a right to live their own life the way they want to – including you :)
 

Self Control

It is believed that Self-Control is a form of an emotion or a part of your character, which defines you as a person. But it doesn't end there, it defines your life as well.

Looking at the increasing number of murderers, eve teasers, rapists and burglars in our society, we surely need to think where we are heading. I think it just takes a weak moment, where someone looses it completely and by the time, the brain starts receiving from the heart,  it's too late. In fact, in most cases, the criminal doesn't even realise that he himself is a victim. A victim of poor self control.

Self control is the ability to think what is right, it is the decision that we take, which decides, how we react in an unusual situation. An unusual situation can be a stranger trying to get ahead of you in traffic, an educated modern women passing by an orthodox mind or a boss trying to show your worth. All we need to do is think before we act. We have the power to change the outcome of every situation. We have the strength to ignore, we have the ability to forgive and we have the option to choose.

There are only a very few differences between humans and animals, one of them is self control.

Growing up in Relationships

Is it important to grow in a relationship or it's just happens?...Honestly no one knows, except you. You don't need an expert to judge you or your partner. Just sit back and memorize your old times, how you over reacted on some simple issues and later realised "Oh God! what have I done?".
Whereas, now you try your best to understand even the toughest situation without feeling bad about it....that my friend, is called "Growing Up" :) ;)

Let's change the way we think ;)

It is difficult to accept the people you can't change....I tried to, but I failed, so this time I'm going to change my attitude towards those who bother me....let's invest our precious time with those who love us unconditionally rather than thinking about those who don't matter...

Blame Game ;)

I have often heard people blaming their failures and bad relations to situations & circumstances...they forget one thing that they themselves are the reason...Lets stop this blame Game and take the full responsibility of our Life. Instead of finding the cause somewhere else See yourself as the cause of what happens to you....

Thought of the Day

"Every thought of yours is a real thing: a Force"

This is my first blog and with the deepest gratitude I want to share my experience with you all and would also like to share the great Secret of Positive Thinking....How positive thinking can change our life and can turn the most difficult situations into a peace of cake....