Wednesday, July 31, 2013

Sorry....


 
I was sitting in a coffee house and enjoying my favourite cup of coffee, suddenly  I received an sms from one of my friend it’s more of a sorry message, about something happened (lets not get into the details) hehe. I said, do you really mean it? Swiftly got a reply “I’ve said sorry, what more do you want”…..period.

 
Since then I have been thinking about how often we use word “Sorry” as a card to get out of the difficult situations. I'm sure all of us must have used and heard this word a lot, if you have noticed we use sorry for every itsy-bitsy situation even though most of the time we don’t mean it...isn't it? During my grown up days whenever I made any mistake or fault I have used SORRY and honestly I never took it seriously. Even today ‘sorry’ is just a word nothing much.

 
Today I  feel that "sorry" is the best way to escape or to avoid difficult truth. But are we doing it right?...I don't think so, I know it is difficult to sit down and solve or explain the situation or why we did it, but trust me this is the best way infact, it's the only way. Communicate with your loved one’s, don't use "sorry" as a shortcut.

An unexpected cup of coffee, gifting their favourite hero’s movie tickets are some simple gestures through which I can show “I’m Sorry Dear”, rather than some fancy bunch of flowers or lavish dinner….this is perhaps the more personalize way of saying sorry.

 So, go ahead and communicate, don’t let pride and ego take the place of happiness. Cause pride is that acid which will destroy your inner self completely and ego will take you to the lonely planet where you would be surrounded with only  skeletons .

 

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